Torn between two cities

What to do, what to do. I am being torn apart by wanting to stay near my family and going where I know I can get a job. All the lists of pros and cons are not helping this decision. Snipes (my sons cat) bit my leg again and I don't know how long it will be before he adjusts to this house or me. It seems that he is only happy when I am at his level. When I stand up, wham! he attacks my leg (owie).